promiscuous

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Since when is it cool to promote your promiscuity? I'm completely monogamous with my husband now but I'll be honest that in high school I was not that way. However, I never promoted that! Not in the least. It just makes me sad to hear songs about it (thank you Nelly Furtado) and see girls wearing shirts that say "slut patrol" or intramural teams called "va jay jays." Seriously! I don't think it's cool to be okay with not being monogamous. Isn't that something that people want anymore? I wish I had always been monogamous and waited. That's exactly what God intended: one man, one woman...one sex life together until death parts them. I know I screwed up in the past but I also know I'm clean & forgive through the salvation of Christ. I just wish that the world would see things through His eyes. That He cries every time a girl gives herself to a guy who isn't her husband. That He cries every time a boy gives himself to a girl who isn't his wife. With each new partner, He cries. Every time. I know I've made Him cry; I know I've asked for forgiveness and repented. I wish there was a song about that.

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Bottles Barbies And Boys said…
It's sad singers and actresses are influencing our children the way they do.When instead they could use it for the good.
Every time I hear some song about adultery it makes me want to jump through the radio and choke the singer.
April 19, 2008 at 6:50 AM
KatBouska said…
Hi, I just found your blog via babies, barbies and boys and I totally agree with you! I think in these times casual sex is not just promoted but it's comepltely accepted as a way of life. So sad.
April 19, 2008 at 4:14 PM
Sara said…
This is a good post. Thank God that he saved you and redeemed you. What a blessing you must be to your husband.
April 21, 2008 at 10:39 AM
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